So have you been into the relationship? Forget a relationship, do you ever got friendzoned? Most probably yes… Everyone gets friendzoned it can’t be denied. Don’t be sad if you were placed into friendzone by someone. Even girls get into friendzoned. For some, it happens ones or twice and others may be used to it. Those who say that they never were friendzoned are those who never asked her/him out because of shyness or fear. And for those who were friendzoned, good for them at least you got some experience to learn the traits and nature of opposite sex. Ya, it’s good if you learn the basic nature and art to talk and make them (opposite sex) laugh. It will be very helpful when you get the special one or any stranger(in the case of arranged marriage), that art will be useful at the starting phase. You can make a strong bond at a very early stage of relationship because of that. So, don’t afraid of getting into friendzoned.
Another thing, I’ve seen many peoples who got friendzoned but still not recovered from the shock of denial or friendzone. They can be always seen saying that she/he will not get better than him/her or also say or thinks that once in a time in her/his life she/he will think that you were the best one and will regret over her/his decision.
Bla Bla… Bogus… No one remembers. Even you also didn’t remember such and also never going to remember such things because it is the human brain which is good enough to replace irrelevant memories or past with the new good ones. And also, when you compare old memories with the new one, you’ll always find that the one you were thinking of as if it is the best memories are very little over this one. Everyone every time meets some better person than the last one and with this new one you’ll also create those memories which you are going to be your best one. I know you’ll not agree with it, so let me ask some question:
1. Do you believe in ‘love at first sight’?
2. Do you remember your first crush? Ya not that you were saying… When you were in fifth grade or even less.
3. How many crushes you had?
4. Do you think the current one is better than the last one?
5. Do you think I can’t live without my current GF/BF? and the last one.
6. Have you also thought the same 5th question answer was same with the previous one?
If your answer to the first question is ‘Yes’ and the second answer is ‘No’ then you are normal and also you are just having some effect of movies and rest none. If 1st one is ‘yes’ and 3rd have answered ‘more than 1’, HaHaHa either you are changing eyes or the love was a just attraction.
If Answer to my 4th question is ‘Yes’ congrats you can always recover from any shock(denial/friendzone/external), you’ll always find a better one though you will feel broken for months or in case few years, but I bet ones you’ll get new one, you’ll get refreshed.
The last thing is if your answers for the question 4th, 5th and 6th were ‘Yes’. Don’t think you are not faithful or you are not good in the relationship. I think you people are the best one, You remains faithful to the current one and that’s the best thing, unless or until you people don’t get broke-up you remains as the true lover and performs best of you. But I’m not here as a judge. I was just proving my blog topic which is, You’ll always find better one Don’t cry.